there are some kids that walk themselves home. Who do they ask for permition? my bet it would be their parents. Who should they?  Reliance is a comlex concept. Because they should know that every answer could set them to fly or to brandish a sword. They could go and quarrel every single time with kids and nearly half of them will evolve to a mass casuality incident. Reliance could be the one time you checked with your dude that you are doing the right thing. He is not your best guy at any shot. But he's got the answer you need. That guy who is sometimes untouchable. Exactly him. He is not unassailable, especially in reasoning tasks.

I can't even believe I went to that guy for help.